2 Key Tips for Pleasing a Woman: Foreplay & Afterplay
By Jemal Jelil
Two of the most important tips for pleasing a woman are:
I once heard a quote: “A man who engages in foreplay understands sex. A man who engages in afterplay understands love.”
If you want a happy wife—and thereby a happy marriage—then you need to understand both sex and love. A wife needs (and deserves) high quality of both.
As for foreplay, it should be your default rule. It doesn’t mean that a woman never wants to skip quickly to sex. Quite the contrary. Women are far more sexual than men often imagine and tend to be very eager for sex if their man has built up their desire for him.
So when to engage in foreplay and when to go straight for sex? You have two guidelines for that:
1) Make it about her. If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read
The Key to Making Love.
2) Pay attention! If you're not sure what I mean, make sure you've read
Sexually Pleasing a Woman.
As for afterplay, it’s really not that hard—don’t freak out! Just gently kiss her for a while and hold her for even longer. This will make her feel loved on an emotional level, not just desired on a physical level. Both are necessary.
If your afterplay heightens her desire, then it may end up being foreplay, instead. All the better…unless you’re exhausted at that point. Then I can’t help you. Sorry.
I have a saying that I tell husbands, “Treat your woman like a queen. But be her king, not her subject (or another queen).” Foreplay can help make you her king. Afterplay will help you make her feel like a queen.
P.S. For more tips for pleasing a woman, just
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