Which Of These 3 Unfaithful Cheating Wife Signs Are Appearing In YOUR Marriage?
By Jemal Jelil
If it's been bothering you and you're wondering about unfaithful cheating wife signs, first let me ask you the following questions:
Has your wife ever seemed bored with you?
Have you ever felt your wife disrespects you?
Has your wife ever complained that you’re emotionally unavailable or distant?
If you answered yes to any of those questions, your wife may be feeling the typical emotions of women who cheat.
Before you continue reading, ask yourself, “Why am I here?”
If the answer is, I need to to know all the possible unfaithful cheating wife signs, so I can catch my cheating wife, then I have to remind you that this site is about how to achieve a happy marriage. But the goal of “busting your wife” is a recipe for continued misery.
Catching her and proving how bad she is, and what a victim you are doesn’t solve the problem.
No, man! Only if you determine the real problem and do something about it can you solve the problem and have a happy marriage.
You haven’t solved the problem yet because you haven't yet figured out the real problem. And you need to focus on the real problem.
But What If You Knew The REAL Problem?
Would you rather spend your life focused on studying unfaithful cheating wife signs and maybe even catch your wife cheating...or would you rather get to the point where you never again worry about her cheating, because she adores you so much that her cheating is just an impossibility?
Consider changing the way you look at the whole issue of unfaithful cheating wife signs. Instead of trying to discover the signs that a woman is cheating, I will show you the signs of men that women cheat on.
What you really need to know are the unfaithful cheating wife signs present in you, not her.
What does that mean? That means that there are certain kinds of men that wives tend to cheat on. Wouldn't you wanna know the types of husbands that wives cheat on, just in case you are one?
The 3 Kinds of Husbands That Women Cheat On:
Husband-Type #1: The Bore.
This is a man who has little appeal. He lacks passion in his own life, and he doesn’t bring passion to his life or to his wife’s. And he doesn’t make his wife feel good about herself.
He may find his wife indicating that an office colleague of hers “makes me feel better about myself.” Or he may find her showing little emotion and having little expression on her face.
If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more appeal, by incorporating more pleasure and passion in your life and in your wife’s.
In your own life, get more involved in activities you love, for example a hobby or sport.
In your marriage, you could start by romancing your wife more.
So that's sign #1 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a bore.
Husband-Type #2: The Chump.
This is a man who lacks dominance. He doesn’t have a lot of control over his life and is not “alpha.” He’s not a leader. He’s not strong.
He may find his wife disrespecting him, despising him, or walking all over him, rolling her eyes when he speaks, calling him a “loser,” and so on. At the same time, she may esteem or respect some other man or men.
If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, then you need to develop more dominance. Start by ensuring your life is filled with purpose. Learn your life purpose as a man, learn how to set and achieve goals.
Take control of your life and of your interaction with your wife.
Lead! Lead! Lead! Don’t be a follower, especially a follower of your wife. You will have to step on some toes sometimes, including your wife’s. But to establish the dominance in your life that your wife needs to respect you, you’re gonna have to do it. So be courageous and get used to stepping up as a man.
So that's sign #2 of the 3 unfaithful cheating wife signs: that her husband is a chump.
Husband-Type #3: The Jerk.
This is a man who hasn’t maintained intimacy. He doesn’t give his wife enough attention, and he hasn’t built a strong connection with her. He may be distant and disinterested, or may be outright cruel.
He may find his wife feeling lonely. She may express her loneliness to him by complaining that he’s “emotionally unavailable.” He may find his wife desperately trying to connect with him or get noticed by him, even if it’s by lashing out at him or acting outrageous.
If these unfaithful cheating wife signs describe you, you need to build more intimacy with your wife. You can do this by showing her she’s loved.
If she needs to be touched, touch her.
If she needs a thoughtful gift, get her one.
(No, not a drill, dude! Here’s a pretty easy one: if she likes flowers—and what girl doesn’t—get her flowers! But put some thought into it: learn what flowers she likes, what colours she likes. Give it some attention. Get the florist’s help if you have to. But put care and attention into it. And please don’t tell me you feel gay picking out flowers. You’re masculine enough that you can get away with it.)
If she needs compliments, give them to her. And again, give it some attention. Look her deep in the eyes (don’t break eye contact) and tell her something you actually appreciate about her.
If she needs something done for her, do it without her telling you to. Clear the snow off her car when she’s not expecting it. She’ll feel loved and cared for.
If she needs your time, make time for her.
Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so pay attention to your wife’s particular.
And that’s the secret: pay attention, man!
Finally, please don’t do any of the below intimacy-smashers. (If they're present in your marriage, then consider them strong unfaithful cheating wife signs--if not now, then in the future.)
1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by saying stuff like, “Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!”
2) Get all defensive when she says stuff you disagree with. Just stay present with her and try to appreciate where she’s coming from.
3) Be snide or insulting with her, by rolling your eyes when she’s arguing with you, taking “low blows” at her, and stuff like that.
4) Shut her out, especially when emotions are getting really heated. There’s probably nothing that distances her from you more than this. When you think to yourself, “I’m not dealing with this crap!” and you want to walk away from her or just ignore her, try to stay present with, even if you find it damn tough.
Otherwise, you’ll find your wife feeling alienated from you, and you might end up finding her finding that companionship with some other guy—I hate saying that—when she really wanted it with you.
Okay, so you came here looking for the signs of an unfaithful, cheating wife in her. But now you can recognize the signs in yourself that may lead you to have an unfaithful, cheating wife.
If any of those signs are present in you, then get rid of them. Re-read this article, because there’s a lot in it.
Read other articles on this site, cuz in other articles I reinforce the concepts I explained here and I sometimes go into more detail.
The idea of a wife cheating on her husband repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It’s something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But I’m not here to lecture the women.
If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I’m speaking to you, a fellow husband. And you only have control over your own self. So take charge of your own life. Your wife will naturally follow…or you might decide she’s not the right woman for you.
Regardless, if you apply the advice I’ve given you here, you’ll naturally find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to bust your wife cheating, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.
Make sure to read this article, too, if you haven’t already:
"3 Steps To Solving All The Marriage Problems A Husband Will Ever Face"
P.S. To better understand what to do about being a Bore, Chump, or Jerk, make sure you get my free Magnetism Method course: "How to Have Your Wife Adore You and Do Anything for You."
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